the new boldness

"(1) God hasn't call you to challenge or change anyone's feelings. Offer presence, not judgment. (2) Better a good listener than an irritating suggester. (3) Humility and gentleness are the new boldness." - Scotty Smith

not the fulfillment of our wish-list

"Father, you have promised sufficient grace, not the fulfillment of our wish-list. You are more committed to making us like Jesus, than making us cozy. In our most Gospel-sane moments, we’re good with that, Father. Give us more of those moments."

[Scotty Smith]

terrible inner turmoil

Repentance is like antiseptic. You pour antiseptic onto a wound and it stings, but it heals. That’s how repentance works. It creates terrible inner turmoil, because you have to admit things you don’t want to admit. - Tim Keller